I need tips! (heh heh. puns)

My LDR boyfriend is coming to visit this weekend (we're only LDR for this year after 5 years together and both 19 so bring on the advice!) and I have some plans to make the first night an amazing one, but this includes a lap dance. I've only given him one before and it wasn't the best. So for you ladies out there who are more experienced than I in this area, what are some moves I can pull that will really make him squirm?? (Because I'm tying his wrists to the arm rests 😏)