My family better get a grip QUICK....I'm so tired of people offering there freaking advice or telling me what MY CHILD needs or what I should do. I forewarned them before she was here...I'm running this show... I try to just listen and not respond to be polite but they won't stop... telling me what she should wear for the day which lotion I should put on her when I should nurse her and how Iong I should nurse her put a headband on her and comb her hair and blah blah.... HAVE YOUR OWN KID!!! I'm a FTM...but I'm not a teen mom or living at home with mommy...I'm damn near 30.  I HAVE THIS. I'll ask for help if I need it