has anyone else had to deal with this

Yesterday they had called me to tell me that my pregnancy blood test came back positive and I had to go to the hospital to get a ultrasound to see if I am anemic or started to have a miscarriage. Well the doctor at the hospital couldn't tell me anything except to wait for my doctors assistant to call me. Well she is the same one who told me I may be anemic or having a miscarriage then proceed to tell me that it's normal and doesn't mean I can't have kids it just means not right now. That it was nothing to get upset about, like you tell me I'm pregnant then I may be anemic or having a miscarriage all in one day and you expect me not to be upset😡. Well today she had called about my ultrasounds and said there is some guild there but no evidence of a pregnancy and then told me that oh I may just be early enough to the point they can't see. What made me tick was her tone of voice towards me, my husband and I don't try to not have a child but we're in somewhere between plus once I told him about what the doctor said he was excited about having another one. I have had enough with feeling like this is a curl joke.