miscarriage - coping with it and do I want to try again?

Question

I had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago when I was 6 weeks pregnant. it comes over me in waves, why me? Am I allowed to get upset?

When is the right time to try and conceive again?

Answer

I know this is about miscarriage but I still consider mine as one. (I had a stillbirth at 34 weeks) it's crazy to think I carried my son all the way up to birth basically and couldn't even bring him home. I spent a little over 24 hours with him. 9 months preparing for his arrival to get shot down. It sucks. Miscarriage and death is terrible, you'll keep getting hurt in waves I'm sorry to tell you. It's been 3 months since our little one passed and it kills us. But there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. I'm about 5 weeks pregnant now, we weren't trying. I think God has a plan for all of us. If you don't believe in god, then you could call it fate. Whatever happens will happen. Keep your chin up and whenever you feel like you've grieved and want to try again, please do.🙂

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I recently had a mc in November and I felt like that in waves too.  It's better now but I still think about how far along I could of been right now and how I would be getting close to finding out the sex at this point.  But we have been trying to conceive since but I will say the first time we had sex after the mc I cried and asked him to stop... Idk why... I just got sad.  He was understanding he was also sad.  He actually took it worse than me.  He wouldn't accept it at first and talked to me as if i was still pregnant so that was hard for me because at that point I just wanted to forget.

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Mine was 2 weeks ago. I was only 5 wks. I want try again straight away! I think if you feel mentally ready then go for it! Good luck x

Answer

It is totally ok to be downright pissed. By 2 weeks do you mean that was on your clear blue digital? By 2 weeks pregnant technically you're ovulating and not officially pregnant yet. So assuming you were about 4 weeks, you can start trying right away after you're done bleeding. Such an early loss doesn't affect the uterus too much.

miscarriage - coping with it and do I want to try again?

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