I'm fed up

Steph
My partner and I have been trying for a baby for what seems like forever (it's been about a year) and this month I was 8 days late on my period, we both got really excited and decided that this weekend we will go and buy a test to find out if we are expecting. I go to sleep on Thursday night and still no sign of aunt flow, I wake up on Friday morning to the wonderful surprise of aunt flow 😡 honestly I feel like giving up. Everything I go through each month with having heavy and painful periods the least that could happen is for me and my boyfriend to be given the opportunity to have a baby. If anyone has any advice on what I can do then please comment, I am willing to try anything xx