is it bad...

Whenever somebody else is holding my newborn I just can't take my eyes off them. I keep wanting to tell them how to do this or that with him even though they are more experienced than I am. (FTM here)
I say I'm tired and need a small break but can't fathom the thought of somebody else doing what I'm supposed to do! I'm even like that with my husband. Sounds bad but it's like I'm so paranoid something is going to happen. It drives my husband crazy that I won't let him do anything so I step back and let him sometimes but it makes me uncomfortable (my husband is great with kids and knows what he's doing). 
Hearing him cry when somebody else has him makes my heart stop. I'm so sleep deprived but I just can't let anyone else stay up with him while I sleep. 
Please tell me I'm not the only one??