Is this normal ?

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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19, we've been together for a while now and I keep feeling like I want a baby. It comes and goes all the time. Im going to see him in April and I know if I still feel baby fever I'll tell him not to use protection and not think about it. Idk what to do, how can I stop this feeling ?

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You should be able to support your baby before you actually have one. That being said, it's normal to feel this, I just don't suggest acting on it until you are able to provide financially, emotionally, and you are fully educated. Because truth is, that wouldn't be fair for your child if you lack in any of those areas. They wouldn't live the greatest childhood, trust me. Not saying this is bad you have these thoughts, but just wait, the right time will come eventually 💕

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Babies shouldn't have babies. You have a whole life a head of you. I know it's hard and things happen but I would try and push that thought far from your head. Babysit or something to help the urge. I understand where you are coming from completely.

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every single one of these comments is so true. you'll screw up a lot if you do this, which is the sad truth.

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I understand that feeling that you have, but unless you are out of high school, have a job, your own place, and enough money to pay for baby, don't do it. Seriously.

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I know it might be hard but think of it this way - would you rather bring a baby into the world now, when you're still so young and might not be able to give it the life you'd want to give it, or wait until you're stable with your own place and whatnot. Give your future babies the best life you can!  Also you're still soo young. Live a little first, be a teenager!  Go out, party, travel, go to uni, do whatever you want to do that might be more difficult with a baby on your hip first.

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I think a lot of girls have this feeling, but you should know better than to act upon it.

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Biologically if you're able to procreate the urge to do so is common, but don't. Idk why you'd even consider it at 16.

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I think you should really fight this urge. You are only 16. Babies are a lot of work. Use protection.

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