Bestowing knowledge on little girls of color..

C.
1) What advice/knowledge/lesson do you wish you were told as a little girl of color? 
2) if different, what advice/knowledge/lesson would you share with little girls of color that you learned as a woman? 
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1) I wish I was told how to accept my quirkiness and happiness, instead of being "too loud, too bubbly, too excited". Now as a woman, I hide a lot of emotions out of fear of judgement or fear of annoying those around me. 
2) I would share the knowledge of learning and creating personal boundaries. IMO, WOC are always hard working and trying to over achieve which while good is often horrible for our mental health so creating a boundary to say "no" younger seems important to me.