What kind of husband does this ????? Husband asks to go out your nice enough to lend him 40 dollars on your card , he just started working again .Let me just let you im not making much and we have 2 kids and 1 on the way. Im not a greedy person but im careful with my money to make it last tell me why im nice enough to give my card to my husband to go to the atm and pull money out and says he will return my card right now.Guess freaking what hes not here and it been almost an hour and the atm is 5 min away drivin distance. He said he was on his way 20 min ago . !!!! Ummm tf and now hes ignoring my calls and text msgs. This is so messed.up on so many leaves i hate his guts and this is my last draw . please i need support :(

Update : so im reading some of your response its not about being controlling at all how would you feel if your husband spent 500 dollars a night with his friends 4 days a week and we go witout food and washing clothes paying anything because he over spends when hes with his friends. We cant afford that kind of life style we are struggling really bad right now ..he doesnt tell me where all this money goes. He never buys what we need ..he doesnt spend it on his family ill tell you that much ! So stop being judgemental.