How do you make 'baby making' less about making a baby?

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Hi guys, I've been wondering on different ways of turning things a little more 'fun and creative'  and less about getting pregnant. Tips appreciated! :)

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Have sex when horny not just when fertile, worked for me. And I never told my husband when I was fertile, so it was better for him, plus I enjoyed it lol

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Just don't talk about it as much... I mean, when you you're feeling frisky, don't say things like, "Hey baby, ready to get crackin on this baby making thing?" Lol! Say something along he lines of, I don't know... "I've been thinking about you all day!" Or, "Wanna go up stairs and have a little fun?" Or, tell him you want him and you desperately need him!! Just don't mention baby making. I mean, yeah you both know that you're ttc. That's a given. But, you don't have to let it be the opening every single time. And even afterwards, when you two are just laying there together, don't say things like, "Maybe we just made a little one." No!! Give him a hug and tell him how much you love him! Tell him how good it feels to be in his arms. Something like that. Just focus on you and your man! Or else, he may get the feeling and vice versa, because some guys put more pressure on the woman, but one of you may feel like, "that's the only reason we're having sex." Then it just becomes a chore. You don't really feel valued, loved, wanted or needed. Ttc can be stressful enough. Many couples can lose sight of one another if theyre not careful.

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Try different positions, lingerie or toys? We're TTC but absolutely enjoy our sex life still and do it just as much for fun and pleasure as for baby making purposes. I think this is really important to avoid putting pressure on yourselves

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Don't make sex all about baby making. Get into the mindset that it will happen when it's time! Sex is suppose to be fun and intimate, so it's really hard to do that when all you are thinking about is having a baby.

Take it from someone who has pcos, and now i'm preggo the natural way. (: good luck!

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Then 69 is the wayyy to gooo lol

How do you make 'baby making' less about making a baby?

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