My question is do you care if you  get married before having a child ? If you're both together and know you both love each other and both want to have a kid but not married yet , what would you do ?? Wait a couple years to get married because you want a nice wedding then have a child or have a child and save up until you know the time is right to afford a wedding??? This has been bugging me for months now so I know I should do what makes me happy but I'll love to hear everyone's opinions.