I don't know if I inserted it right or not. When I push my middle finger on it in as far as I can, I can feel it bend the ring and it doesn't seem to move up anymore. I thought it would lay different it's more of an up and down (I guess that's how you'd describe it) and I can feel it with the tip of my middle finger since it's the longest. I'm just worried I don't have it in right. This is my first time trying this form of BC.