I want to be pregnant but I prefer my in-laws at a distance

My husband and me share a house with my in law's and things right now are pretty chaotic. My in laws are very nosy, opinionated, inconsiderate of other people's feelings, like things there way and there way only, close minded, like to have the last say so in everything, like to point fingers without any type of evidence to back it up, think they run the house and attempt to over parent us when it comes to raising our daughter, never treat us like adults type ppl. My husband and me have a beautiful daughter and we try to raise her ourselves. But because she is our only child they continue to look at us like we don't know what we're doing. My mil has 3 kids. It's like they think the more kids you have the more experienced you are i guess lol my in laws aren't married, they don't really get along, my sister in law hates her dad. And right now my husband and I are going through our own things right now. They are all stubborn interfere way to much. I can't stand them. And moving out isn't an option right now. My husband surprised me today and said he wants us to have 3-4 kids lol I want to have more kids to but bringing another child into this house is not something I want to do for obvious reasons. I don't know what to do? We tried talking to them. It didn't work. It's they just don't want us all to be a family. They don't particularly like me they have made it quite obvious and at this point the feeling is mutual. It's hard to get along with someone who has no intention of trying to get along with you. Just venting I guess. Plz no rude comments.