We both want kids in the future, we talk about baby names all the time. But I'm not finically stable enough yet and he wants to wait until he's finished school and that's atleast another year. We had a scare once and he got so panicked and scared that I thought he was going to explode.  But we have unprotected sex, he knows the risks. We even track my most fertile days using this app! I know this pregnancy was conceived on a 26% day, he knew it was a high day and we still had unprotected sex. So I mean, what did he expect?