For all my natural hair sistas, how do you feel about the phrase "nappy headed"?. Recently oomf on snapchat went on a rant about bonnets and how "nappy headed bitches" make it hard for everyone else who wears a bonnet because guys always think that their hair is nothing but a "bush" underneath the bonnet. Her point of the rant wasn't to point out all the "nappy headed bitches", but she used that phrase.

I for one can't stand the fact that "nappy" has such a negative connotation with it. How do you feel about it? How does your S/O feel about your nappy hair (or whatever your hair texture may be). Do you associate being "nappy" with a "bad thing"?