The mixed message man

Savannah
So gals, I need a bit of guy advice here.
He's a few years older than me, career all set up- completely set for life (🙄)
He slid into my dms a few months ago and it was all friendly and stuff, I then went through a rough patch and decided I just needed something casual with someone, we discussed it but not too much and thought we were on the same page..
BUT I realised I'm worth way more than being some guys booty call and want something more on the serious side (not necessarily with him) 
So 1) I don't know how to play it with this guy (I'm V proud so don't like messaging first) and he seems to like playing messaging games with my mind 🙄 (messages me first, convo just takes off then he will read my message and not reply)
2) he keeps asking to meet up and sometimes it genuinely seems like he wants to meet up to get to know me, other times more for a booty call! 
What do I do?! 
Any questions or ideas I'm all ears!Â