Need some help ladies

Jenny
Okay. So i was induced at 38 weeks 2 days due to high blood pressure. My babyboy weighed 5 pounds 3 ounces his blood sugars wasnt stable and his billirubin levels were not right. So they supplemented with formula. And made me pump after every time i nursed. So it was nurse then feed formula then pump. Which didnt seem bad at the time. We had to stay an extra day at hospital bc of his blood sugars. Well the day we got to go home i felt fine and everything was ok. I live an hour away from hospital and once we got home i was hurting so so so bad in my breasts so i pumped and i had gotten to where at the hospital i was making so much milk from all the pumping. Well i couldnt even go an hour without pumping or nursing without my breasts getting engorged. Now my baby will be a month old next week and ive gotten down to just pumping once a day and nursing in the mornings and some at night. And during the day formula or pumped breastmilk that ive stored. Well now i am wanting to stop breastfeeding because its just so stressful and it seems formula is so much faster. I can only nurse if i have a nipple shield and hes Getting to where i think he does better with bottles. I thought about pumping and doing bottles but that would mean i pump a lot and i dont wanna hurt that bad all the time. Today i went out to the store and didnt hurt at all today until i got home and i started hurting again. But im thinking if i wanna quit breastfeeding how do i keep it from hurting. Ive tried hot showers and hand expressing but it does nothing. My breasts get engorged and lumps will form and it hurts. Any advice is appreciated. Sorry for the long and jumping around topics lol