PLEASE HELP!!! idk how to orgasm 😭

I've been masterbating for years but I don't think I've orgasimed... I stimulate my clit using my fingers, I've tried a mini vibrator and also Ben wa balls... is there something I'm missing when it comes to orgasming? 😫 like everything feels good but I've never had that "Woah" moment. Is it perhaps I need penetration instead? I'm lost, please share your masterbating techniques and tips.
PS. I'm a virgin 😭
Also, normally when I masterbate I would say I'm pretty relaxed and I listen to freaky music. I'm so jealous of my friends who tell me they have awesome orgasims.. PLEASE HELP!!!