3some?

Question

The guy i'm talking to says he thinks it would be awesome to have a 3some with two girls (me being one of them obviously). Is it wrong that I hate the idea? And I think he should hate the idea too! Why would he want another girl to have sex with? Im enough for him, I hate the fact that he wants to add in another girl!! I think it's rude and a little disrespectful to me. Am I wrong? Is it just normal for a guy to think this way? Because I find it rude. I'm not dissing anyone who has had a 3some.. I'm just curious because he "loves me" so why would he want another chick to have sex with....?

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Definitely just a fantasy. Don't worry about it. When my boyfriend and I talked about it I had the exact same feelings. Eventually I got used to the idea and it kinda turned me on so we tried it. Be careful who invite in the bedroom. The girl we chose wasn't that great. I ended up asking her to leave lol. She was too into me.

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People are different. It's not wrong to not like the idea. Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel.

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Just be straight up with him and tell him how you feel about it. Some people are different, some like that kinda thing. But if it makes you uncomfortable and you hate the idea, let him know so hopefully he won't bring it up again!

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You're not wrong for not being interested but he's also not wrong for wanting it. It's jut something some people are into. I love my boyfriend, but I'm super into the idea.

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It's not wrong for either of you to feel that way. He's allowed to express something he wants to experience and you're allowed to not want it. Just sit down and talk to him.

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It's just his fantasy, not your inadequacy. It's has nothing to do with you not being enough, I'm nonmonogamous myself and I know how this works. Trust me, it doesn't mean you're lacking anything.

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You're not wrong for not being interested but he's also not wrong for wanting it. It's jut something some people are into. I love my boyfriend, but I'm super into the idea.

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It is sooo not wrong for you to feel how you feel. People are different and you aren't into that. Tell him how you feel. 
As to if it's normal for guys to think like that... I don't know. I haven't ever had a partner tell me he wants that. So maybe maybe not? It doesn't matter if it's normal though, what matters is you guys coming to an understanding between you too. So tell him how you feel! 
I hate the idea of threesomes... so your defs not the only one to feel how you do ❤

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