advice

Hayley
Okay I'm in engaged, my fiancé is wonderful, or at least he use to be. My bank account is a shared bank account between us and his isn't. He takes money without asking and transfers to his, and he said "he doesn't want me on his account". Then when I tell him to give me my change he always calls me a Jew about my money and how I make him poor. Keep in mind he works a job maybe getting 150 at most a week and works 20 hours. I bust my ass working 40 hours a week. Along with the money issues we have had sex once in 2 going on 3 months, he's shown no interest and when we take showers together he doesn't even get turned on anymore. When we do fight he always says I'm the problem. I'm just not sure what to do anymore and I'm not sure if I love him anymore. I'm not sure how to talk to him about any of this because he has a lot of anger issues. I mean throwing things and screaming .Anyone know what to do?