Husbands mood???

Ureno
I need an advice ladies its my first pregnancy im 20 weeks i taught pregnancy was about feeling happiness feeling very special but i dont feel that way its the total opposite my husband has been distant from me i get on his nerves i make him mad easily its like a constant war n this started happening around 12 weeks of pregnancy is it normal for men to have mood swings or for them to be distance from their wife i dont know how to make this better...