I was talking to my non-mom friend about birthing my 9lb 9oz 22" baby naturally, without an episiotomy and one tiny tear, so small that it wasn't an issue, and she said "damn, your vagina must be huge as hell!" It's really not though, sometimes even intercourse is uncomfortable. I think the Lord just really heard my prayers about tearing and getting cut that I somehow dodged that bullet. But still. I'm kinda offended that some people would think that 😂😅