We had to cancel my shower last weekend due to a death in the family and my MIL would like to reschedule it for after the baby is born so that everyone can meet him. I know some others chose to have their showers after.. but I don't know how I'm going to feel about 40 women passing around my newborn.. and ill also have to travel 1.5 hours to get to the location. Am I just being crazy? I just don't know how I'm going to feel once he's born.