Have you told anyone about your IVF treatment for support?

Hey, starting ivf soon just wondering have you told anyone about your Ivf treatment apart from your other half ? at the beginning when I found out we needed ivf due to low amh levels I didn't tell anyone because I didn't want pity, and I felt like a failure so didn't want people looking at me different. however I later told my mum and sister as they knew something was up I told them I didn't want it to be discussed unless I started the conversation and how private it was to us. I also told one close friend (as 3 of her other friends has had ivf) she's a good support she's the type of girl that would lift your spirits when in bad form. Was just wondering your views

I always question myself,

Am i putting my problems on them?

I feel guilty about telling them

Did I do the right thing

Even though sometimes it's good to talk

I've this fear that they will let it slip don't know why I say fear

My brain bes sore thinking