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Would you get upset if your SO went out with his friends but failed to include the detail he went to a strip club? I've told him before that I don't feel like a strip club is a place for a man in a serious relationship and he's making it seem like it's no big deal.. like why can't you guys just go to a regular bar to chill and talk? I don't understand why it HAS to be a strip club and he says "that's just what guys do." Would you ladies be ok with it???

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If he told me before he left for the night I would be fine with it but if he lied about it I would be pissed

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I'd be pissed. Doesn't seem like he's a good bf. A guy in a relationship doesn't go to strip clubs and watch naked girls dance and tip them. Maybe you should rethink about this relationship.

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The fact that he did it even though he KNEW it would make you uncomfortable is pretty messed up. The fact that he lied on top of it would make me even more mad. Don't be manipulated to think you being upset about this is just you acting like a crazy girl, I think strip clubs are inappropriate for serious relationships too unless both partners have agreed it's ok for the other to visit one. I'd be pissed if my SO was spending hundreds of dollars to get a lap dance from another woman while she rubbed her tits all up in his face.

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I would feel dissapointed he went. We'd have a talk if I found out after he went. And I would be hella pissed and probably leave him if we'd talked about it before (as being an issue) and he decided to still go AND sneak it/not mention it before hand. 
I'm so sorry girly ❤

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Not at all. If it's not a "big deal" he wouldn't forget to include it when he told you he was going out. Plus, it's just trashy.

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That is a deal breaker for me. No way😤

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Ya but thankfully my bf has already told me he has no desire to go to one 😊

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I would be mad. Not only did he not tell you beforehand but he went behind your back despite you letting him know how you feel about strip clubs.

My ex went to a strip club once for a bachelor party but he didn't really have the chance to tell me on the night as it wasn't planned, they sort of just ended up there after their little party. He did tell me immediately after, I was annoyed but I got over it, we hadn't discussed it before and he wasn't into the strip club scene anyway.

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I agree that strip clubs are definitely not for serious relationships. If anything they ruin them.  You can't have a guy look at another woman and all that shit and then expect him to only want you. It's a definite no.

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If you'd told him before that it made you uncomfortable and he still went without telling you then yes, I'd be upset.

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