How often do you groom 🌳🌸 down there ?

Jessica
I have been with my love for almost 10 years (April) . Married for 5 months . He's my best friend and I can be very REAL with him. So he understands I have to let it grow out sometimes. I just don't understand all the instagram etc with women in bathing suits or underwear and they are ALWAYS so well maintained. I can't afford to wax all the time and it hurts. When I shave I have what feels like an hour of oh so smooth them the bumbs start and the insane itching when it grows back. My boo is totally fine with me growing it back because of the discomfort but he LOVES it clean ! How do these women do it ? Do I have to fork out tons of cash on expensive products or waxing ? I'm just happy he lets me be me but I would love to maintain it if it didn't bug so much.Â