To those who are struggling to conceive

Are you tried of hearing "relax and it will happen"? Or "you're thinking about it too much" Cause I sure as hell am. If I hear one more person tell me that I'll unintentionally go off 😠 How can you not think about it when you would give ANYTHING to have a baby?  It's been a year now and guess what? Nothing. Then I see everyone I know around me get pregnant within a month of trying.  How can that not make me think about it? About how I have done everything I could think of and yet it still hasn't happened.  I'm so tired of letting this consume me.  Day after day I think about it and I don't know about you but the last thing I want to hear is how their friend Ann got nocked up her first month of "not trying" .. not comforting AT ALL.