My friend "Sara" and her husband started TTC about 1 year ago. My husband and I joined her about 5 months ago, and we talked about how much fun it would be to be pregnant and raise babies together.  Sara has conceived twice in a year, but had two miscarriages, the most recent in January. And then I got pregnant in February. Should I have put off TTC out of respect for my friend? On the one hand, I hate that my pregnancy may cause her pain. I recognize and honor her pain and frustration, and would never want to make it harder. On the other hand, my medical history makes it harder to conceive, so I feel extremely lucky that I conceived after 5 months. If I had waited, who knows? It could have taken years. Maybe this was my one shot.