I have a husband & he's the father of my child.. but it's like having a baby hasn't quite hit him yet. He still goes out everyday & does what he wants leaving me & the baby alone all day. Then tells me I'm lazy when I don't want to go out.. but yet I get up at night with her to while he sleeps all night. But I'm "bitching" when I tell him I'm tired & need help. I'm lazy when I fall asleep with her in my arms on the couch. Yes, he does get a bottle here & there.. & does hold & watch her sometimes.. but sometimes compared to 24/7 isn't good enough. Maybe I'm over reacting & expect too much.. but I'm tired, I'm stressed, I'm still recovering from a c section.. & I'd just appreciate a little help. I don't expect him to stay home ALL of the time.. but every once in a while would be nice.. ya know..