Opinions Needed

Am I in the wrong? I love my bf but sometimes I just wanna yell at him. Especially yesterday, I had a long day. Barely ate anything all day. Had to go to school & a doctor's appointment. Then afterwords, had to go get younger siblings . By the time I cam home it was 8pm. I was tired, hungry, and didn't wanna start any of my schoolwork. He comes to my house & he wants attention but I told him I had a long day. His response is "he had a long day too". Idk but honestly I think dudes are sort of dumb. I really had to bite my tongue from saying something rude. It's moments like that  I question if the relationship is just a burden. All I really wanted was to take a nap but I couldn't even do that. Yesterday was the worst.😐