not GF material ?

Question

What does it mean when the guy I like says he doesn't want to rush anything by making me his gf but we've already had sex a few times 🤔🤔 basically I'm not gf material right?

Answer

It's not that you're not girlfriend material, it's that he's a jerk who sounds like he's using you for sex. He can't say he doesn't wanna rush things and take sex whenever he can. That's not how it works.

Answer

Basically means he's gonna use you for sex.

Answer

He doesn't want you to be his girlfriend. He wants to use your body and then move on to the next one. Use protection!!

Answer

It means he doesn't want a girlfriend just a fuck buddy. Doesn't mean you're not "girlfriend martial"

Answer

He only wants casual sex. If that's not what you want then you should go your separate ways.

Answer

No, that has absolutely no reflection on your ability to be a girlfriend. That's his feelings of not being able to commit. He wants to play the field. Don't ever think of yourself as not being girlfriend material because if one guy doesn't think you are a good match for him, believe me when I tell you that there are 10 more guys who you would be a great match for. So don't get stuck on one dude who can't commit.

Answer

It's more of a reflection on him than it is on you. He's showing you now who he is. Basically he'd like to use you for sex.

Answer

He just wants to have sex thats all

Answer

Maybe ask more about when the right time would be....

My now fiancé and I met and had sex the first night, but then he straight up told me that while he was in university he didn't want to be in a relationship. I chose to stay and wait. And now have a 2.5 year old son and one on the way. A house and are engaged.

Answer

It's more of a reflection on him than it is on you. He's showing you now who he is. Basically he'd like to use you for sex.

not GF material ?

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey