Trouble 😰

Hello, so I don't know how many ladies will relate to this...

I am 26 years old, married for 3 years, no children. Me and my husband have been arguing more and more lately due to my inability to do anything proactive. I literally have no energy to do pretty much anything. Our biggest arguement is cooking. I hate cooking and he would like me to cook and pack him lunch everyday. But I just can't seem to get into it at all. I get so frustrated at the smallest things. Especially the daily chores. I feel like such a failure and not lady like at all. 

My plan was to never get married or have children. I fell in love but I still don't want kids, my husband does. The thought of having a child terrifies me! I can hardly take care of our pets let alone a human being. 

I just want to feel like a "normal" woman. I feel like my husband is slowly losing interest in me.