Any first time Moms over 40?

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Help! 
Any first time mommies over 40?
Anyone dealing with 
1. Diabetes
2. Weight issues
3. Fibroids in vaginal canal
4. Being over 41+:
AND........
Symptoms and results at what number of weeks?
HcG levels
Progesterone levels
Level of stomach and leg cramps?
Due date change?
Planning natural delivery or c-section?
Anything else you would like to share please!
Do the doctors seem unconcerned?
When did you see the baby, at how many weeks?
When did you first hear the heartbeat? 
Anyone go in and baby was not in the amniotic sac at 6 weeks? Mine thankfully showed up 2 weeks later with a strong heartbeat! Thank the Creator!