If you live with your bf- how often does he take you out?

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So my bf never takes me out. I think the last time was Valentines day and we just went out to eat. He said today "what do you think we should do today?" (He always asks that like sarcastically). I told him I wanted to see a movie. He said you really want to? I said yeah then he basically ignored me, watching tv all fucking day. That's not the first time he's done this. I am so bored all the time, we never have any fun. And he makes really good money so wtf. I'm only 22 I feel like I'm wasting my life. And I don't have any friends. What should I do about this? 😞

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We go drink at a friend's house every weekend but I don't consider that "going out". Going out, to me,means like a date. And that hardly happens unless we have extra money

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Keep in mind living together means your spending more time together then living apart.  That being said boys aren't mushy if you want to go out then go out if you want to go out with him tell him you want to go to __________.   Guys need specific directions.  The ones in there 20s even more so. That being said if your not happy talk to your partner about how your feeling as far as going out all the time lol I don't know how you pay your bills but going out every week and during the weekend isn't possible.  We have bills and a kid.  What we do is once a month we pick a movie we'd like to go see and a place for dinner.  Get a sitter and go out for the evening.  Other then that we do stuff seperately like he games while I read.  He watches tv while I take a hot bubble bath and relax.  When it's time for bed we throw on mystery radio theatre set the sleep timer for bed and alarms for wake up and giggle about how silly the 50s radio programs were till we fall asleep.  The reality of living together vs what we think it's gonna look like often differs.  It's not perfect or pretty all the time.  If I wanna go out I go out if he wants go out he can go out (never does on his own he likes he game system). That being said if your not happy and you've communicated how your feeling maybe it's time to exit the relationship.  Complacency and lack of communication is a relationship killer

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I'm single, but in my dad's words, "we aren't mind readers. You have to tell us specifically what you want." Definitely make it clear that you'd like to go do something if you aren't! Boys need to be told exactly what to do or it ain't gonna get done 😂

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My hubs and I have date night once a week. It rolls in our cheat meal for the week. It's usually dinner just the 2 of us. Sometimes it's just getting out of he house without the kids. Adult time.

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I'd make reservations wherever you want to go and tell him to be ready by 7:00.

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My fiances brother lives across the street so we're over there almost every day playing drinking games, and that's enough for me, quality time together or with friends is just as good, ☺️❤️

If you live with your bf- how often does he take you out?

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