Hello <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> girls! I'm having a frustrating sex life. Sex is either painful for me even when I'm very turned on and wet (he's just huge, that's all), and then once it stops hurting a few minutes in, it then feels like nothing. No pleasure at all. I can't think of a position where my clit will get stimulated just right and touching myself during sex feels unnatural (but even when I do I can't get on the right track because sex is so active. Girls who have had this problem: did you find a fix? Is Oral sex the only way? I'm hesitant of sex toys because that would just make the sex awkward and dysfunctional IMO. Please help! I'm desperate for pleasure. My guy is so sweet and understanding and I love the physical closeness during sex but that's it. I don't want to hurt his feelings! Please help. I don't want to go through my whole life never feelings sexual pleasure except when I do it myself (yes I'm capable of having many orgasm by myself). I'm really upset by this. Help please! I'm desperate!