Am i wrong for this?

Madison
I sent out a group message to me and my finances close family (parents and siblings and grandparents) letting them know we wanted the first 24 hours after my c section to bond with our little one.. 
Apparently i'm the worst person in the world for wanting this and i'm keeping her from family that's been waiting to meet her...
I so badly want to freak out, but that gets me no where.... 
Am i wrong for saying we want our own time with her before being bombarded with family?