do you expect your man to help?

My husband works, I'm a SAHM. He goes to work at 7 and is usually home around 2. Before we had our daughter, I didn't expect him to help me around the house. I did all the cleaning, cooking, errands, etc. I didn't mind doing it all because I felt that was my contribution. Now that we have our daughter, I'm exhausted and feel he should help around the house. What works for you guys? I wrote a list of things for him to do to help me out, minor things like take all the trash out, unload dishwasher on weekends etc. but I feel like he picks and chooses what he wants to do or would rather go fishing than help me out. No judgment please. My husband is a great man, we are just trying to find the right groove after having our little one.