how do I take his virginity ?

I know how ridiculous that sounds ' how do I take his virginity' I know what to do but how, I have slept with around 19 people so I have my fair share of experience, i have met a lovely guy who I do like, he is a virgin.. we tried to have sex the other day as he made a move but we couldn't... he was so scared .. I respect that. He demanded I went on top, how do I get him to ease and calm down.. he kept getting hard and then going soft .. and he wasn't getting me wet as he was trying that hard to get me wet he was doing it so hard and fast .. he even made me bleed. So we couldn't get it in.. how do I make him feel at ease and also give him the time of his life.. what shall I start off with ? I've never taken someone's virginity that was this shy, I'd love to sleep with him and pleasure him but how can I ease him and turn us both on and get into it ... ps he doesn't know I know he's a virgin either.