Ughhhhh.... Okay so this is going to be long

I can't stand my brother in law sometimes

He was in a very bad accident when he was younger. Ejected from a car, landed on his stomach and spent months in icu. The was at least 6 years ago. Now and then he still has a ton of pain.

A few reasons why I can't stand him sometimes :

he gets waited on hand and foot because of this. Eats a bunch of crap he knows will hurt his stomach and then whines how he can't do anything because he's in pain

He has a dog that me and my fiance are expected to take care of (on top of our animals. Cat , dog , and our two ferrets) If we don't feed HIS dog she won't eat. He spent all day playing Xbox while my fiance and I went to town (we leave in between two towns) all day and as soon as we got back (we left at noon and got back past midnight) he asks my fiance to feed his dog. When he's done nothing all day and when my fiance called him out on it, he went fucking insane. (Pics below)

He constantly compares me to my fiaces ex, and treats me like a stranger.

Any time there is a mistake on my part he tells my fiance he is going to rip me a new one. Just the other day ago I made food for everyone and there was some left over so I put his dog out on a lead so she could eat the food outside and run around for a bit. (She was put there for 30 mind) then she some how got loose and demanded how my fiance needed to find his dog while he sat on his ass playing Xbox. And the entire time telling him that it was fucking stupid I forgot his dog and how he should rip me a new one because I'm so fucking stupid and can't do anything right.

Like ughhhh . It's ridiculous. Rant over.