Do you agree that this sentiment is liberating for women?

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Cosmopolitan posted this, among other things, in an article on Snapchat today. Do you agree that a good reason to not give a guy a bj is because if he's worth anything, he'll give you oral anyway? Or do you think it's selfish and hypocritical?

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Great advice, dump him. Totally ignore all his other qualities, just focus on oral sex, that's the most important thing in life 🙌🏼

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Some people just don't like performing oral, men and women. Some people dont like receiving oral. I don't see either of those as reasons to dump your SO. That's immature.

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If I want to blow my bf I'm going to blow him and I don't care if he gives me oral back just bc I blew him. That's really childish thinking

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I found the whole article ipocritical. Pure bullshit

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It doesn't seem fair that only one of them in a relationship goes down while the other never does. If I were always going down on him & he never would with me I would dump him. Either both of us go down, or none of us go down.

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I don't really keep tally marks... it's not a chess game it's just head. Sometimes I give head or he gives me head or we don't at all or we both... point is, it's just head. If your already reading that much into it then your not enjoying it as much as you could be

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Respect first. Oral sex must be consensual. A relationship doesnt require oral sex or sex of any kind. I get the idea of being vocal about your needs, but you should be in a relationship where respect is a priority.

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I think if the guy is hypocritical about it, i.e. he expects you to go down on him regardless of whether you enjoy it or not. Then you should definitely dump him.

And if it's something you really like in your sex life, then dump him.

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I wouldn't even give that magazine the time of day. The advise is horrible! It's a good way to kill a few brain cells. We wonder what's wrong with the current generation...this is one example! You know whose great for sex advise old Dr. Ruth or Dr. Drew videos!

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What I think is gross is when I man won't go down on his partner and he expects to get away from not reciprocating. I don't like oral sex so I won't suck a guy's dick, especially if he won't do the same for me. I can't force him so either we don't do oral sex or don't have sex at all. Unless someone doesn't mind not having oral sex reciprocated, then it's pretty hypocritical.

Do you agree that this sentiment is liberating for women?

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