no sex...

What would you all do if your husband hasn't tried to have sex with you for over a year? 
It's ridiculous at how low his sexual desire is! It makes me so mad. And i feel like this is always a fight we have. He always says he will do better but never does! I finally gave up on asking him or trying cause he never wanted to when I wanted to. So since I've quit he hasn't ONCE tried anything! 😢😞 I feel so unwanted.
Note : he always says that marriage isn't about just having sex (which I agree) but this is ridiculous right?