Could you work on the same job with your SO?

T lady
Same Dept..same hours? Well my husband and I just started a new job together. 11pm-7am I work alot harder than him. I'm also in school full time Mon, Wed, and Fri 8-12pm when I come home from work/school i immediately start on lunch and dinner, wash clean. My husband acts as if he is so exhausted. Sex is short and (all about him) I want to tell him how I feel but he'll respond in a sexest way "it's your wifely duties just quit your job and stay at home" ..he's so unsupportive. And not to mention I'm TTC :(