kidney help. Pleeaassse

I've had kidney problems my entire life on top of endometriosis and digestive issues. A few months ago I was hospitalized for a severe kidney infection. I was doing fine. Took the antibiotics when I got out, drank water. And I started exercising and trying to live healthier. With a few set backs of drinking sweet tea here and there. Well I learned my lesson with asking the hospital for help without insurance considering I owe them a little over $2,000. And it's back. But the pain this time is completely unbearable. I've been throwing up due to the pain with cold chills and a fever. I can't sleep or eat. Not sure if it's just an infection this time or a stone. It's been unbearable since Friday. I've been drinking tons and tons of water with a tablespoon of lemon juice. With no relief. Can't look for blood in my pee for a stone because I'm on my period. It has not been my weekend I just need help all together. This was mostly asking for help and a rant. I'm 19 with no insurance my family doesn't care enough about me to try to help me learn how to adult. My boyfriend is 20 so he's not much help either considering he doesn't have insurance either. And I dunno...I just need kind womanly advice...I've been trying so hard to take care of myself and my health but nothing seems to be working....No matter how hard I try it always seems like I get sick