Ok so today was O day and we BD today and 2 other times over the weekend. Fingers crossed! We were invited to go out on Friday, normally we would decline but it's my hubby's cousins 30th bday. There will be lots of booze involved and I prefer not to partake due to obvious reasons. I don't want to have to explain to everyone the truth behind me not drinking, they somewhat know we are trying but I'd rather just not divulge that info right now. What do I do? What do I say? Have you been in this situation?