So last night, my SO and I were video chatting on the phone. Things got pretty heated and he asked me if I wanna listen to him give me instructions on how to pleasure myself. I respect how he always says, "if you want to do it, baby. You already know I wanna do anything and everything with or to you. But it's all up to you, okay?" I said "yeah. I wanna try." And he searched up some ideas. The one he gave me was, "put your finger(s) in your mouth and get them a little wet. Run it up and down the opening of your vagina and clit. Then draw small tight circles on your clit. Don't finger yourself just yet. Tease yourself, get yourself wet. Then you can finally insert a finger (and add more if you'd like) in."