I'm due in May with our rainbow baby and our first to make it through the pregnancy. My husband and I both decided we want it to be just us during labor and just us for the first few hours after having our babygirl to have that special bonding time. My parents understand and live just down the street- said to just call when they can come down, she'll be their 7th grandbaby. His side of the family is a different story. She'll be his dad's first grand baby and his moms third, but first granddaughter. His dad&girlfriend, and his mom and 2 sisters want to be there when she comes out so they can all hold her. Which I understand from their standpoint but at the same time that takes away from our time as husband/wife and mommy/daddy to bond with our daughter. I'm now being called controlling and harsh for not wanting anyone there until after she comes and we've had time to bond with her as a family before she gets handed around to everyone else. Am I being too harsh? My husband wants us to stand our ground and says we're the parents and making the decision we feel is right for us.