I do not work, my husband is old-fashioned and his family as well, that women are to stay at home and my job is at home.

We have a 10 year old and our little princess atm. I recently went to my OB to get on birth control because I think it's the best decision. He wants to try again in 2 years but I will be 31.

I'm having a hard time with this. I want to try now for a little boy for him like he wants, but I don't want to wait only to keep increasing the age I'm going to be giving birth, complications and such. But, we do need to work on finding a house and not be renting anymore.

I now I will probably get negative comments, I just needed to vent, I have no friends here due to moving and he isn't any help in the conversation department