We went to a counselour because we feel that we argue too much and we are not enjoying each other's company. Zero sex life... The counselour's tip was well that is for you decide how you want your marriage to be... I'm thinking ugh don't you have any common tips or what works well for marriage like how should a happy healthy marriage feel? Looking for any ideas on what a marriage should feel like or how often do healthy couples argue before it comes tiring and you no longer want to be with that person?