Needless to say I'm shocked and scared to death. I don't know if I have the energy for this as the dad rarely helps with the first one. So amazingly blessed, so where there is a will there is a way but say a prayer for us. My husband is laid off and I'm only getting two days of work at the hospital right now. I have been told since I was 16 that I would probably never conceive because of polycystic ovarian syndrome but my first little blessing is getting ready to turn 1 next month! After 10 years of marriage we have one here and one in the oven. Any advice?? Tricks for energy and sanity?