Insecurity during sex...?

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Does anyone else get so self conscious during sex that they can't even really be in the moment? I've always been so insecure about my appearance, particularly my boobs during sex. I'm barely a 32A and when I lie down it looks like a boy. I feel like if I had bigger boobs I could give my all during sex without worrying about my body. Anyone else feel the same way?

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Yes absolutely. I've been with my boyfriend forever and know he loves my body but I cant do it. I hate being on top and i just feel like he'll be staring and judging. When hes probably just staring and loving it.

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I feel this EXACT way

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Yesss i probably weigh about 90-100 pounds and I'm 5,3-5,5. I feel like I look Disgusting ! Like a total troll... it's been really effecting my Sexual drive, bc I'm so embarrassed to be naked 😞😔😒 and it really sucks Bc I try to eat like a beast, and never gain anything

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I totally feel like a boy. Women with big boobs will never really understand. The very thing that often makes you feel womanly, some of us don't have. Like I'll be on my back during sex and I'll be completely flat chested, where as other women's chests will bounce and turn their man on even more. I always feel like a disappointment when I take my shirt off. Because my man could love me but at the end of the day you know that if they could choose between you with small breasts or you with big ones, they'd want you with big ones.
Or when I'm in a room full of women and they are talking about bra or size or whatever, I get umcomfortable always knowing I'm the smallest. 
Yes it's silly to be reduced to breast size but it's a very real experience for a lot of women and I'm tired of being told "well at least you don't have back problems" or "you get cuter bras" 
Like how invalidating is that?

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And I love the idea of handcuffs or being tied up but I feel like then my boobs are too exposed and I can't keep him from taking my bra off 😂

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I feel too fat and it makes me proper self concious

Insecurity during sex...?

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